"I know my child is capable of more..."
"Why does my child hate studying so much?"
"Every time I see their test scores, I can't help but get upset..."
The worries of parenting are endless. "Studying," in particular, is one of the biggest sources of
friction in the parent-child relationship.
Out of love for our children, we may have unknowingly become "graders," shackling their infinite
potential with the rulers of "correctness" and "average scores."
But rest assured, you are not alone.
And there is a new map to help you find your way out.
The answer is to stop "grading" and start
"appreciating" your child's learning.
'My Child Is Amazing' is a revolutionary and practical guide to parenting that shines a light not on scores or right answers, but on your child's "learning story"—the process of their thinking, the traces of their trial and error, and their unique discoveries.
The 3 Transformations This Book Will Bring to You and Your Child:
1. Your "Gaze" Will Change
By swapping your "red pen" for a "magnifying glass," you'll start discovering your child's "amazing points" instead of their "shortcomings."
2. Your Child's "Motivation" Will Change
With you as their greatest appreciator, your child will begin to shift from "forced studying" to a self-driven "desire to explore."
3. Your "Conversations" Will Change
The phrase "Go study!" will be replaced with the heartfelt words, "That's so interesting! Tell me more about it!"
Nurture the Skills Truly Needed
in the AI Era, at Home.
The methods introduced in this book, such as "Parent-Child Learning Appreciation" and the "Appreciation Notebook," are based on practices that have created small miracles in countless classrooms and homes. It is packed with concrete hints for nurturing the skills truly needed in the AI era: the ability to find one's own questions and a deep sense of self-worth.
What's Inside (A Glimpse)
- Chapter 1"My Child Is Good at School, But..." The Source of That Vague Anxiety
- Chapter 3A Practical Guide You Can Start Today! Three Steps for "Learning Appreciation"
- Chapter 5"My Child Has Changed!" Inspiring True Stories of Growth
What Readers Are Saying
★★★★★ This was the "user manual" for my child I always needed.
I was constantly frustrated with my 4th-grade son's grades and hated myself for nagging him to "study more" every day. Reading this book, I couldn't stop crying. I realized I had only been looking for "correct answers" and had completely missed what my son found "interesting." Taking the phrase "swap the red pen for a magnifying glass" to heart, I tried "appreciating" his homework and found so many traces of his earnest efforts. Our conversations have truly changed. I recommend this to every parent struggling with their child's education.
★★★★★ So practical, you can start using it today!
Many parenting books are abstract, but this one is different. It's incredibly concrete and easy to understand, with tools like the "Magic Question" and the "Appreciation Notebook." I immediately started an "Appreciation Notebook" with my 7th-grade daughter, and I'm amazed every day by her unique perspectives I never knew she had. Most importantly, I feel liberated from the "curse of grading," and parenting has become so much more joyful. This is not just feel-good talk; it's a super practical guide.